Feb. 16, 2022

I Always Wanted A Sister; How I Found My Sibling After 40 Years Of Searching

I Always Wanted  A Sister; How I Found My Sibling After 40 Years Of Searching

I've always known that I was adopted. My parents did a great job in making sure that I felt special, picked, chosen and all of that. I had a great life, but it was time to search for my birth parents. I didn’t just find my birth mother, I also found two siblings. One of which has an amazing story to tell. 

On June 25, 2021, an interview close to my heart was aired on the podcast. I brought to the podcast my biological brother, Cory Custer, who was just coming out as a transgender woman the first time we met. 

Cory Lovejoy, as we know her now, shares to us her journey of how she embraced her own alignment, and how she keeps doing it everyday.

In this episode, Cory and I talk about discovering your true self, loving yourself, and accepting yourself. And how it takes real courage to do so, but it’s worth it when people resonate with the joy that it gets you. 

Join me again in this heartfelt interview with my own sibling. And watch out for next week’s episode, as we check on how Cory has been doing since our interview in June. Enjoy! 

"Infinite souls have a temporary human experience. It's just one heart, one soul seeing another heart and soul."

In this episode:

[5:14]   Wendy discovering her own roots, 2 full brothers and her birth mother

[16:02]   Confessions of a transwoman

[17:27]   The hole inside me is getting bigger

[19:34]   Getting into depressive spirals and suicidal thoughts

[22:58] As he became more successful, the bigger the hole gets

[25:53] Expressing feminine energy through women’s clothing

[27:23]   “The universe said to me, clearly, you're not afraid to die. Cory, why are you afraid to live?”

[30:35] In January of 2020, Cory started to come out to friends, transitioned in August, and came out publicly in September

[36:14]   The journey of self love and self compassion.

[42:49]   How to tell your spouse you’re trans?

[47:52]   I will live in alignment with my purpose as best as I know it. - Cory

[54:18] The meaning behind Cory’s chosen second name, Lovejoy

[59:24]   Cory’s love/hate relationship with fashion.

[1:03: 30] Why you need to be confident in your clothes. 

[1:04:47]  If you don’t like shopping, you’re doing it wrong.

[1:07:54]  Build your courage muscles to come out of your comfort zone. You got to be yourself because everyone else is taken. - Cory

About Cory Custer / Cory Lovejoy

Cory’s  is a true story of transition. A momentous plot of transformation. What you’re seeing is a lifetime of desire being released. “I think we can dress consciously in a way that amplifies and expresses our differences and amplifies our voice and our personal power and shines our light and use it that way.”

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